WITH PHOTOS! OH SNAP!
After two weeks in the village, we have returned. While I enjoyed Benim, I am glad to be back in civilization. Or, more accurately, what I have adjusted my standards to deem "civilization" once again.
We're staying in Lizzie's Hotel (where I had a horrible experience before-- no light in the bathroom or bedroom, no lock, no anything... bad night.) but I remain hopeful this time will be better. We take of tomorrow morning at 7(ish) so we can drive the 7 estimated hours to Tamale, where we will spend another week. Tamale, they tell us, is hella hot. Literally every time the name Tamale is mentioned, the staff goes "Oooooh! There it is very hot", before recounting some horror story from a previous year where all the students on the busride up got heatsickness and vomited all over everything, ever.
I've found the staff is full of a lot of stories of that calibur.
But yes! About that village!
It's name is Benim, called for a palm frond discovered by the founder that had many nuts but no wicks(?). The actual name for the non-wick many nutted palm frond is actually, as you might imagine, quite longer. But it starts with Be Nima... something something, and has become Benim. It was the largest of the villages SIT students stayed at, numbering between 500 and 1000 people. There were also three schools (two public, one private) so there was never a shortage of children. When we first got there, after unloading our luggage from the trotro on stroids that took us to Benim, a gaggle of children came running across the school lawn screaming, "OBRUNI!" They followed us to the SIT headquarters in Benim, a house belonging to an older woman we came to know as Nana, and really never left. If there was a single consistancy throughout my stay in Benim, it was the presence of children.
We would be sitting on sofas, reading, and they would slowly leak into the room. Every time I looked up, they had doubled in size. And not for the entertainment the Obruni was providing, because I assure you reading "Things Fall Apart" was to myself, not some kind of organized reading. I would sit on the sofa, regard the chilren, keep reading, look up again at their doubled size, shudder slightly, keep reading, and so on. Some were consistantly there, like Pricilla and Nana Yaw (called Nana, a title of respect, at a young age because he was named for The Honorable Nana Yaw, and it seems disrespectful to refer to the child, named for the great man, without the title of greatness), while others such as Soloman and Mabina were guest stars in the odd little melodrama of "follow the Obruni and get in her way whenever possible".
It actually took a couple of days before my village-mates (Isabel, Mara, Natalie, and Amanda) and I wondered why the kids weren't in school. And that's when we were informed that in Ghana, although public schools are free for everyone, the children aren't really forced to stay in school. Because the teachers are payed for their work, regardless of graduation rates, test scores, or what-have-you, the children can just leave class at any time if they so wish. The teachers aren't reviewed, aren't fired, and are given free reign to do whatever they want. Amanda worked in a school for her mini ISP, and one time the teacher left in the middle of the day to take a nap, while Amanda did what she could. So if you want your child to get an education where they LEARN, you have to send them to a private school. Private schools cost from one to two cidis a day (one cidi is about .60 or .70 cents), which many families just can't afford. Still, all that being said, the children genuinely enjoy school and try to keep with it as long as they can. So that, at least, is good.
I stayed in the SIT headquarters, with Nana and her grandson Nana Yaw. Nana Yaw, having hosted Obrunis in the past, was more than willing to spend time with us, posing for the camera and asking for gifts and being a bit of a spoiled brat. His mother, Cicily, is twenty years old. She had Nana Yaw when she was sixteen. She farms, but lives in the house as well. For the most part I didn't interact with the family in the house (we all had meals together in the house, cooked by Auntie Grace, and I was mostly with my village-mates) as much as I could have, but they had a busy schedule. The times I DID help around the house (sweeping was mostly my job), they laughed good-naturedly at me for doing such a horrible job. Nana, however unintentionally, was hilarious. She spoke no English, but didn't allow that to stop her from chatting at us most of the time. She also enjoyed walking around topless. She's maybe 70? One time I came around the corner to find Nana, naked as the day she was born. I made a loud noise in suprise, and she kept asking me why I was startled (in Twi). Stammering for a response while trying to hide my burning eyes, I told her I'd seen a large bug and got the hell outta dodge.
Food was made for us by Auntie Grace, but one night we got to cook for her. Deemed "American Night" on our schedule, we had to work together to brainstorm a meal, cook it, and serve it to our Ghanian hosts. We decided on Veggie Burgers with Yam Chips and Guacamole. Basically the most American you can get when working with Ghanian ingredients. We made veggie burgers out of beans, curry, and assorted veggies. We pounded them into patties. After that we cut Yam (or Cassava, or Coco Yam, the only difference being where the Yam is grown) into thinish slices and fried them in oil. The Guac was made without tomatoes or onions (as Amanda dislikes both of those), but still good nonetheless. I was in charge of frying up the yam chips, which took about 12 minutes per batch. Fun times. In the end, though, we produced a pretty tasty meal and all went to bed having eaten far too much.
I had a great time weaving. I made two cloths, which is pretty impressive for three days of work. For an Obruni. When Nana Ogau (Kente Master) weaves, it takes him three days to complete an entire cloth (much longer than the one I was weaving) of the hardest and most difficult pattern. It takes an entire day to string the loom properly. So my weaving, with all its intricacy (compare: Kindergardner's Crayon drawing to a Klimt painting) he could do in an afternoon. Regardless, I was lerning and I am damn proud of my little scraps. Hell to the yes.
One of the most interesting parts was the expectancy of the villagers for us to give them gifts. Itw as only something that became readily apparant at the end, but it was worth noting nonetheless. We want to help the village out, and indeed when we get back we are going to raise money at our schools to help Benim build a library, but we weren't ready for the sheer bluntness of some of the villagers. Today, after coming back from giving Nana Ogau a gift for teaching me to weave, I met some people in the street for the first time. Because I (obviously) stick out in the village setting, it is not uncommon for people to yell at me and start a conversation. Usually they are short, thanks to my limited knowledge of Twi, but when walking through the paths of Benim I was consistantly hailed with calls of "Obruni! E te seyn?" {Obruni, how are you?}. In Ghana, when you are greeted, it is very rude not to respond at all. So at times, when I walked along the more popoulated paths, a trip of 5 minutes could take me 40 minutes, due to greetings alone. In any case, this morning before I left I was walking back and encountered a group of men for the first time. After the obligatory greeting, I informed them that it was my last morning in Benim. They responded with, "That's sad. So what are you giving me?". They have come to expect gifts and favors and, frankly, money from Obrunis simply because they are Obrunis. We were also given, durning our stay, a list of things that the elders of Benim requested for the school, from us. As a donation. That we didn't ask about. That they wanted by the time we left.
It just makes me sad that that's the most they expect from visitors-- money.
There's more to say about the village, but I'm afraid I'm running low on time.
I am especially excited to go to Tamale because of the day excursions we'll take. One is to go see the Sahara, and on the way stop at a Crocodile pond famous for the number of Crocodiles in it. You can pay to ride them and to feed a live(!!) chicken to them. I would feel bad about this except for the fact that on this trip I have consistantly been awakened by roosters crowing at 4 in the morning. Therefore, I think of it less as cruelty and more as Kharma.
The other trip is to an Elephant park, where we'll hike around the National Park and see Lions, Elephants, Giraffe, Hippos, and all those African Friends, as well as possibly ride an Elephant. Soooo excited.
I'll have internet in Tamale (so they say), so hopefully I'll keep up with the blog. I hope everyone at Colby had a nice Fall Break, and that everyone else had a nice Columbus Day! Keep making safe decisions!
Love,
Freckles O'Bruni
(Lo)
"Tamale, they tell us, is hella hot. Literally every time the name Tamale is mentioned, the staff goes "Oooooh! There it is very hot", before recounting some horror story from a previous year where all the students on the busride up got heatsickness and vomited all over everything, ever."
ReplyDeleteLies. If I was a staff member, this would be a well rehersed and strategic ploy to trick all the students. Just you wait. You'll get to Tamale and it'll be an african iceberg, then the staff will be snug in their rhino parkas and laugh histerically. At least, that's what I would do if I worked there. This is probably why I've never been a camp counselor. If, per chance, I am wrong and Tamale is incredibly hot, bask in the irony that it is spelled exactly like the Mexican hot dish, tamales. I would find that humerous.
And on another note, I get a kick out of the fact that you Irish-ified Obruni to O'Bruni. Also, for some reason "Freckles O'Bruni" reminds me of "Chuckles McFur."
~ Lyndsey